How could i express gratitude? The first thing i thought was "love your life." But again what exactly does that mean? I keep coming back to this word "acceptance." Accept what is present. Can you accept everything that passes through your life and give it a place in its temporary home? For truly the human experience itself is temporary. Happiness, sadness, jealousy, envy, joy, delight, anxiety, fear, openness, pain, glory. Each of these emotions moves through us...if we allow them. Surely they will get stuck if we offer resistance, tell them to go away or cover them up with "doings". In that place of acceptance, life flows. It is not like everything is blissful all the time. It is better than that. You get to experience everything, ALL. What a smorgasbord!
Last night I had an interesting conversation with a chanteuse from Lebanon. She kept telling me how difficult life was as an artist committed to singing. She carefully made her case that being a musician was much easier but to sing was nearly impossible. She lamented that she couldn't support herself though her live-in boyfriend, the lawyer, was okay with it. She then told me she would be willing to do other work but it had to be meaningful. As i listened to her stories of, well, let's get right down to it, victimhood, I gently tried to point out the flaws in her thinking. Of course she agreed with everything i said, answering "yeah" and then followed it with an excuse "but." Almost immediately another woman came up to her and asked her if she could take singing lessons from her. They exchanged information. Beaming as i watched Life answer Life, I said "see." And wouldn't you know it she responded with "yeah, but..." She was completely committed to her story of suffering and there wasn't a thing i was going to do to change that. I continued to listen for a few more minutes. I offered no resistance to her reruns of suffering, then dinner was served and we were seated apart. At the end of the evening she came up to me and said she didn't know why she had told me such intimate details about her life but she really just felt much better. I smiled to myself and thought this is acceptance in action.
It's sweetly ironic: Acceptance of what is, Transforms what is.
Ahh... The "is" has such suchness to it. ;-)
RépondreSupprimerOM..... as always K your musings have my soul at ease and stillness has entered my afternoon here in Portland, thank you Owen William Fritts
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